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		<title>By: Amy Palko</title>
		<link>http://www.lessordinary.org.uk/index.php/2008/06/finding-beauty-in-the-imperfect/comment-page-1/#comment-2727</link>
		<dc:creator>Amy Palko</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 15:57:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I completely agree, Morag - imperfection can be beautiful in the man-made just as poignantly as it can in nature.

I am clearly going to have to get myself a copy of that film, Roland!  Thank you so much for bringing it to my attention and linking it so beautifully to the post :-)

It&#039;s a worrying social trend, isn&#039;t it, Liss, to remain so fixated on some impossible idea of perfection?  One which I&#039;m fairly certain could never leave to contentment, confidence or genuine happiness.

I think being aware of it, Mrschili, and trying to pass it on to our children through our own example is one of the most important gifts we can give them.

&#039;A sensitivity we need to develop&#039; - couldn&#039;t agree more, Nadine :-)

So glad you found me here, Mandy! Thank you so much for taking the time to leave a comment - please do come again :-)

That was a great response, Monna.  Like you I do not love conflict, but I so admire the way your student was able to turn it into something so positive!

Oh, I&#039;m so glad, Allison!  That makes what I&#039;m doing here feel so worth while :-)

I&#039;m not actually all that familiar with Wabi Sabi, A Yen For Paper, so I was really pleased to see &lt;a href=&quot;http://ayenforpaper.typepad.com/folios/2008/06/wabi-sabi.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt; your post&lt;/a&gt; on the subject.  Fits perfectly!

Karen, thank you for this extremely thoughtful comment, which, as always, is so beautifully written :-)

Thanks so much for leaving your inspiring comment in the first place, Dianne!

Yes, I&#039;m most definitely up for celebrating imperfections, Sara :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I completely agree, Morag &#8211; imperfection can be beautiful in the man-made just as poignantly as it can in nature.</p>
<p>I am clearly going to have to get myself a copy of that film, Roland!  Thank you so much for bringing it to my attention and linking it so beautifully to the post <img src='http://www.lessordinary.org.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>It&#8217;s a worrying social trend, isn&#8217;t it, Liss, to remain so fixated on some impossible idea of perfection?  One which I&#8217;m fairly certain could never leave to contentment, confidence or genuine happiness.</p>
<p>I think being aware of it, Mrschili, and trying to pass it on to our children through our own example is one of the most important gifts we can give them.</p>
<p>&#8216;A sensitivity we need to develop&#8217; &#8211; couldn&#8217;t agree more, Nadine <img src='http://www.lessordinary.org.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>So glad you found me here, Mandy! Thank you so much for taking the time to leave a comment &#8211; please do come again <img src='http://www.lessordinary.org.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>That was a great response, Monna.  Like you I do not love conflict, but I so admire the way your student was able to turn it into something so positive!</p>
<p>Oh, I&#8217;m so glad, Allison!  That makes what I&#8217;m doing here feel so worth while <img src='http://www.lessordinary.org.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I&#8217;m not actually all that familiar with Wabi Sabi, A Yen For Paper, so I was really pleased to see <a href="http://ayenforpaper.typepad.com/folios/2008/06/wabi-sabi.html" rel="nofollow"> your post</a> on the subject.  Fits perfectly!</p>
<p>Karen, thank you for this extremely thoughtful comment, which, as always, is so beautifully written <img src='http://www.lessordinary.org.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Thanks so much for leaving your inspiring comment in the first place, Dianne!</p>
<p>Yes, I&#8217;m most definitely up for celebrating imperfections, Sara <img src='http://www.lessordinary.org.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Sara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2008 01:14:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesome. I&#039;m in a complete non-perfectionist mode lately. I like the idea that we can not only accept imperfections, but celebrate them.

Saras last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.onsimplicity.net/2008/06/using-big-crazy-unrealistic-dreams-to-fuel-savings/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Using Big, Crazy, Unrealistic Dreams to Fuel Savings&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome. I&#8217;m in a complete non-perfectionist mode lately. I like the idea that we can not only accept imperfections, but celebrate them.</p>
<p>Saras last blog post..<a href="http://www.onsimplicity.net/2008/06/using-big-crazy-unrealistic-dreams-to-fuel-savings/" rel="nofollow">Using Big, Crazy, Unrealistic Dreams to Fuel Savings</a></p>
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		<title>By: Dianne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dianne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 21:41:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amy I love that you have taken a simple comment by me and made it into such a wonderfully profound post! 

I am inspired by you daily to look deeper into life, to look closer at the world around me, to look for the beauty that lies in simple things, things we take for granted, things often viewed as imperfect.

Thank you for the link to your other, equally thought-provoking post, too ... the way society (particluarly the media) puts so much pressure on girls is frightening and increasingly tragic. 

It made me smile to see you have included a &quot;fleck of brown in an otherwise clear blue iris&quot; in your list of beautiful imperfections ... my youngest daughter has just such a fleck in her eye!

:o)

A Yen for Paper, I have heard of wabi-sabi but knew nothing other than it&#039;s name ... now inspired to learn some more, thank you!

:o)

Diannes last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://moondreaming-daisy.blogspot.com/2008/06/more-thoughts-on-gratitude-reasons-to.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;More Thoughts On Gratitude: Reasons to be Grateful&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amy I love that you have taken a simple comment by me and made it into such a wonderfully profound post! </p>
<p>I am inspired by you daily to look deeper into life, to look closer at the world around me, to look for the beauty that lies in simple things, things we take for granted, things often viewed as imperfect.</p>
<p>Thank you for the link to your other, equally thought-provoking post, too &#8230; the way society (particluarly the media) puts so much pressure on girls is frightening and increasingly tragic. </p>
<p>It made me smile to see you have included a &#8220;fleck of brown in an otherwise clear blue iris&#8221; in your list of beautiful imperfections &#8230; my youngest daughter has just such a fleck in her eye!</p>
<p> <img src='http://www.lessordinary.org.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':o' class='wp-smiley' /> )</p>
<p>A Yen for Paper, I have heard of wabi-sabi but knew nothing other than it&#8217;s name &#8230; now inspired to learn some more, thank you!</p>
<p> <img src='http://www.lessordinary.org.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':o' class='wp-smiley' /> )</p>
<p>Diannes last blog post..<a href="http://moondreaming-daisy.blogspot.com/2008/06/more-thoughts-on-gratitude-reasons-to.html" rel="nofollow">More Thoughts On Gratitude: Reasons to be Grateful</a></p>
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		<title>By: Karen Swim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Swim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 01:07:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amy, the photo and the insight took my breath away. We are far too fixated on perfection. We touch up, laser, and alter to cover our perceived blemishes. In our society we celebrate the unnatural. I found this photograph a beautiful representation of life itself. Over time we all lose a few petals but it adds rather than detracts from our beauty. As we lose the petals we become more ourselves as we have been tested and tried by life itself. Our remaining petals seem to stand stronger, prouder with the inner knowledge that we have earned what is left and we are proud to remain standing tall in the garden of life. Thank you Amy for your thoughtful, intelligent insight and precious reminder to celebrate true beauty.

Karen xx

Karen Swims last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/WordsForHire/~3/312980550/achieve-lot-with-just-little.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Achieve A Lot with Just A Little&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amy, the photo and the insight took my breath away. We are far too fixated on perfection. We touch up, laser, and alter to cover our perceived blemishes. In our society we celebrate the unnatural. I found this photograph a beautiful representation of life itself. Over time we all lose a few petals but it adds rather than detracts from our beauty. As we lose the petals we become more ourselves as we have been tested and tried by life itself. Our remaining petals seem to stand stronger, prouder with the inner knowledge that we have earned what is left and we are proud to remain standing tall in the garden of life. Thank you Amy for your thoughtful, intelligent insight and precious reminder to celebrate true beauty.</p>
<p>Karen xx</p>
<p>Karen Swims last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/WordsForHire/~3/312980550/achieve-lot-with-just-little.html" rel="nofollow">Achieve A Lot with Just A Little</a></p>
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		<title>By: A Yen for Paper</title>
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		<dc:creator>A Yen for Paper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jun 2008 15:21:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I rejoice in the beauty of the imperfect in everything that is fashioned by the human hand - pots, books, knitted sweaters etc However having read quite a lot about the Japanese aesthetic of wabi-sabi, I also appreciate the beauty in the impermanent and the incomplete. Thanks for the attention to detail in your photos and for reminding me to look for beauty everywhere.

A Yen for Papers last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/typepad/ayenforpaper/~3/313090147/journal-prompts.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;JOURNAL PROMPTS - TOPICS TO AWAKEN AND PROMOTE CREATIVITY&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I rejoice in the beauty of the imperfect in everything that is fashioned by the human hand &#8211; pots, books, knitted sweaters etc However having read quite a lot about the Japanese aesthetic of wabi-sabi, I also appreciate the beauty in the impermanent and the incomplete. Thanks for the attention to detail in your photos and for reminding me to look for beauty everywhere.</p>
<p>A Yen for Papers last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/typepad/ayenforpaper/~3/313090147/journal-prompts.html" rel="nofollow">JOURNAL PROMPTS &#8211; TOPICS TO AWAKEN AND PROMOTE CREATIVITY</a></p>
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		<title>By: Allison</title>
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		<dc:creator>Allison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 17:56:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amy, I just love your posts about finding beauty in the world around you.  They have helped me ever to much!  I&#039;m becoming much more relaxed, calm, and appreciative of the beauty around me.  Thank you!

Allisons last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/sushiday/~3/311034150/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Pepper Tuna Roll&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amy, I just love your posts about finding beauty in the world around you.  They have helped me ever to much!  I&#8217;m becoming much more relaxed, calm, and appreciative of the beauty around me.  Thank you!</p>
<p>Allisons last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/sushiday/~3/311034150/" rel="nofollow">Pepper Tuna Roll</a></p>
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		<title>By: Monna</title>
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		<dc:creator>Monna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 15:49:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for this lovely post, Amy.

We - all of us - are imperfect.

Last night, the high school seniors with whom I have worked all year graduated. After the ceremony we were talking about their five-day class trip to a lovely Mediterranean resort where they travelled, for the first time, without any teacher-chaperones or parents. When I asked them how it went, one student said that there was a lot of conflict for the first couple of days. Another girl commented, &quot;I love conflict. I love that we are all so different and that we disagreed and got upset... and then we figured out how to make it work. And it worked!&quot;
Although I don&#039;t yet love conflict, I love her answer because it speaks to this issue of how gloriously imperfect we all are and how many of us are striving each day to learn how to really love our imperfections and those of the people around us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this lovely post, Amy.</p>
<p>We &#8211; all of us &#8211; are imperfect.</p>
<p>Last night, the high school seniors with whom I have worked all year graduated. After the ceremony we were talking about their five-day class trip to a lovely Mediterranean resort where they travelled, for the first time, without any teacher-chaperones or parents. When I asked them how it went, one student said that there was a lot of conflict for the first couple of days. Another girl commented, &#8220;I love conflict. I love that we are all so different and that we disagreed and got upset&#8230; and then we figured out how to make it work. And it worked!&#8221;<br />
Although I don&#8217;t yet love conflict, I love her answer because it speaks to this issue of how gloriously imperfect we all are and how many of us are striving each day to learn how to really love our imperfections and those of the people around us.</p>
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		<title>By: Mandy W</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mandy W</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 15:38:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a lovely post Amy.I found it thru your post on Twitter.And I agree with the above thoughts on The Last Samurai-such a beautiful quote.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a lovely post Amy.I found it thru your post on Twitter.And I agree with the above thoughts on The Last Samurai-such a beautiful quote.</p>
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		<title>By: Nadine Touzet</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nadine Touzet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 11:53:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When you make a patchwork quilt, there should be at least one mistake in it (I make more than that, LOL). It&#039;s because nothing can be perfect (I think that the idea behind it was that only God&#039;s creation can be perfect, but I&#039;ll leave that comment to everyone&#039;s consideration). So beauty does not always lie in the idea of perfection, something we seem to have inherited from the Greeks.

I once followed a course on therapeutic painting. We studied and drew and painted all the stages of the life of a plant, each one carrying its own richness. A sensitivity we need to develop, and which you brilliantly demonstrated here.

Nadine Touzets last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://nadinetouzet.com/blog/2008/06/14/twitter-updates-for-2008-06-14/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Twitter Updates for 2008-06-14&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you make a patchwork quilt, there should be at least one mistake in it (I make more than that, LOL). It&#8217;s because nothing can be perfect (I think that the idea behind it was that only God&#8217;s creation can be perfect, but I&#8217;ll leave that comment to everyone&#8217;s consideration). So beauty does not always lie in the idea of perfection, something we seem to have inherited from the Greeks.</p>
<p>I once followed a course on therapeutic painting. We studied and drew and painted all the stages of the life of a plant, each one carrying its own richness. A sensitivity we need to develop, and which you brilliantly demonstrated here.</p>
<p>Nadine Touzets last blog post..<a href="http://nadinetouzet.com/blog/2008/06/14/twitter-updates-for-2008-06-14/" rel="nofollow">Twitter Updates for 2008-06-14</a></p>
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		<title>By: Mrs. Chili</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mrs. Chili</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 11:08:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This brought me back to one of my favorite films, The Last Samurai.  In it, Katsumoto was searching for the perfect cherry blossom.  What he comes to realize, and what he expressed with his dying breath, is that they are ALL perfect.  What a beautiful lesson, and one that I wish we could learn a little sooner than many of us do.

Mrs. Chilis last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://theinnerdoor.wordpress.com/2008/06/14/a-reality-i-wasnt-aware-i-was-honoring/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A Reality I Wasn’t Aware I Was Honoring&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This brought me back to one of my favorite films, The Last Samurai.  In it, Katsumoto was searching for the perfect cherry blossom.  What he comes to realize, and what he expressed with his dying breath, is that they are ALL perfect.  What a beautiful lesson, and one that I wish we could learn a little sooner than many of us do.</p>
<p>Mrs. Chilis last blog post..<a href="http://theinnerdoor.wordpress.com/2008/06/14/a-reality-i-wasnt-aware-i-was-honoring/" rel="nofollow">A Reality I Wasn’t Aware I Was Honoring</a></p>
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